*head desk*

I was helping this guy decorate his giant sim sized manor, for FREE I might add, just because I like decorating. I was using items already in my inventory since he didn't give me any shopping money and I wasn't about to spend my money buying stuff for his house.

He's always kind of bugged me, especially when he tries to order me around like he knows me. But after I decorated 3 or so rooms for him, he just stopped talking to me at all. Which I didn't mind too much. I'd briefly considered going back to his manor and picking up my items, but I figured I'd leave them be since they were pretty much all C/M items.

Then tonight he decides he's ready to [ kind of? ] talk to me again. It's been at least a month, maybe more, since the last time I went to his manor.


[03:16] Decorating Impaired: what are you up to ?
[03:17] Slut Fallen: Checking out the new round of fameshed
[03:17] Decorating Impaired: huh ?
[03:17] Slut Fallen: a shopping thing
[03:17] Decorating Impaired: i need to finish decorating
[03:17] Slut Fallen: you still haven't finished?
[03:18] Decorating Impaired: you said you woudl help
[03:18] Decorating Impaired: I don't do it on my own
[03:18] Decorating Impaired:I get females tod o it
[03:18] Slut Fallen: I did! I worked on three or four rooms.
[03:18] Decorating Impaired: My place would looka  mesh
[03:18] Decorating Impaired: if I tried
[03:18] Decorating Impaired: lol
[03:19] Slut Fallen: I did several rooms. Then you just sorta stopped talking to me so I figured you were done decorating.
[03:21] Decorating Impaired: come here *He TPed into FaMeshed, landing right in front of me*
[03:21] Slut Fallen: where?
[03:21] Decorating Impaired: right next to you
[03:21] Slut Fallen: Im like, almnost right behind you.
[03:24] Decorating Impaired:c omming ? * I have no idea where he was. I was lagging bad so just camming around *
[03:27] Slut Fallen: Where?

And then I TPed home.

It's been about 20 minutes since then and he still hasn't told me where he had wanted me to go. Or maybe he was just trying to ask if I was having a shopping induced orgasm.

Comparison to...wut?

This guy tips me and my friend nearly 2k each, then ask for our rates. I don't even.... wut. And this is after he spent a good 20 minutes trying to make be mean to him and talking about forcing my friend to serve him and not caring about consent.

[03:32] Him: . I wouldn't hire either of you.. just from comparison..
[03:32] Him: . but you seem like sweet girls..
[03:32] Him: good night.
[03:33]  Ϯ ℒily ĸιттεн Ϯ : That's fine. I wouldn't hire you either ;)
[03:33] Him: .. :). and that's fine by me.
[03:33]  Ϯ ℒily ĸιттεн Ϯ : lol, have a good night :)

Pft, fine then.

I usually don't mind getting unfriended by people. And if it's someone I don't talk to at least once a week I might not even notice for.....ages. If ever. Generally I figure if people don't want to talk to me, and we never really hang out or talk, then sure. Unfriend me. I unfriend people all the time. Generally when I look at their name and realize I either don't remember who they are -OR- I can't remember the last time we even spoke to one another.

But today I went to IM someone I had just talked to on Friday. We were on the same RP sex sim and had met each other months ago at a club we were both working at the time. We hung out and chatted a bit Friday morning and I told him a bit about RL. Namely how I don't drive because I don't like it. It gives me panic attacks and I hate it so I don't do it. I also mentioned how I don't have a bank account because I don't have a job. He made a comment about how I'm dependent on my BF. And I am, I know that. But there are LOTS of reasons I have panic attacks and several health reasons why I don't have a job. I didn't tell him about those though because they're super personal. Then I crashed while I had gone afk to make something to eat. When I came back and saw I'd crashed I just went and laid down since I hadn't slept yet that day.

So, this morning I got a house on the RP sim and I went to send him an offline and tell him we're pretty much neighbors now.... and he'd unfriended me.

Like, da fuck? I think this one bothers me because I'd actually opened up to him a little bit on Friday about my RL, which he was asking about btw, and then he decided he doesn't want shit to do with me anymore? Well fuck right off then. I'm sorry if my RL circumstances, which you know next to NOTHING about, or my crashing makes you want to not be my friend anymore you can seriously bite me.

It's mah avatah an' I do what I want.

Fucking people pissing me off man. This guy in a group I'm in starts going off about how he hates that a girl's avatar can have a cute face and then "ruin" it with big boobs and/or ass. Starts making fun of the way it looks and talking about how a girl can make three asses out of the giant one she has and so on.

I don't say anything for a while until he says something about the giant boobs would make her back sore and I had to make a smart ass comment about how luckily avatars don't get sore.

And I was nice enough and wasn't TRYING to start anything, but eventually the annoyance was building up.

Because.... who the fuck cares what your avatar looks like? I mean, sure, I make fun of some avis when they're 800+ days old and wearing system shoes and bling or something. Or if I see someone with a gigantic ass I might say to Ell or whoever I'm talking to "Holy shit that's a big ass". But if you've taken the time to put your avatar together in a way that YOU find attractive, who is anyone to judge you?

Why should my PIXELS of all things have to live up to your beauty standards?

It's fine that big boobs or asses or pink hair or tattoos or whatever aren't your personal taste, but who are you to say that if they're someone else's they are "ruining" their avatar?

You're being a self centered ass, that's who you are.

I've considered leaving this group in the past just because even though it's about a topic very near and dear to me, I can't seem to just feel comfortable with them. I've tried going to hang out and whatever but.... *shrugs*. We'll see though. I paid to be in the group so I shouldn't leave it just because one guy came across like a judgmental and close minded dick.

Riddle me this.

Sometimes when I'm bored I look at the profiles of people on my friends list. Just seeing what they've updated and reading what they have to say, that kind of stuff. This guy had a riddle in his picks and was offering 20k to anyone that solved it. I thought it looked familiar so I sent him a message saying I thought I had seen it before on Reddit or somewhere, and if it was the same one I thought _____ was the answer. So he messages me this morning.


Him: You are a idiot.. no one answered my riddle on reddit or any other website.
Me: Hey, no need for insult if I was wrong. I just said it looked familiar so I'd give it a go. No wonder you're lonely if you're so quick to insult. [ * one of his picks had been all about how he was lonely *]
Him: Harlot, there was no reason for you to even "reply".... Anything you say to me is moot. As is vice verse... leave me alone.
Him: Also, I have reason.. it just does not fit with your perspective...
Me: Lol, ok, I guess this means you don't want to stay on my friends list in case you get lonely enough for an escort? Since that's what you had said to me when we meet at Rock-a-baby after all.
Him: I am not the only person who used this account, nor do I care. Piss off.

Him: Also, saved you the trouble. Deleted you in advanced.. I never spoke to you, and never cared to. What you and John talked about, is no concern to me.
Me: Alrighty, thank you ever so much. Try not to fall off your high horse and have a nice day.
Him: Piss off.

What a pleasant fellow. He's sure to have lots of friends and people that cherish their time with him.